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 Right now,
maybe everything feels like a fight. It shouldn't. You're
pursuing a course of study that close to 70% of students
abandon during their college career. There's only so much
energy you've got, so use it wisely. Take the time to
examine where you stand. Realize that you can conquer the
demons. After all, there's always room for
self-improvement. It may just take a little work.
Be the Mountain
Don't think of college as an obstacle, but as a challenge.
If you're ever feeling down, burnt out, lazy, or worthless,
take note of how far you've already come. Make a mental
list of your accomplishments. The most immediate item
should be this: you're in college. You've decided that
you're going to pursue a career in medicine. Don't let work
bog you down; it's just work. Focus on each task as it
comes and give it your all.
You're Not
Perfect
You're human. Yes, you are. And that means you make
mistakes. Forget expectations. The only person who
ultimately decides what you're doing with the rest of your
life is you. If you aim for perfection, you'll find
yourself failing way too often. You should always aim high.
But keep yourself grounded, and keep your expectations
realistic. There will be times when you fall short of your
mark; that's also part of the learning experience.
Inspire Yourself
This is important. Get a piece of paper. Grab a pen. Right
now. Write down in your best handwriting (or, if you're
going to be a doctor, your handwriting) how badly you want
to be a doctor. Take this oh-so-very important piece of
paper with you when you study; post it above your desk;
keep it near your bed. Consider it the reason for your
meager pre-med existence to go on.
Provide an
Example
Everyone needs role models. Since you work so hard, take
the time to enlighten others. If you see someone in your
class struggling, lend them a hand. If your school has a
tutoring program, volunteer. Even if it's just one hour a
week, you'll feel better about yourself. And you'll be
helping others excel, too.
Don't Get Cocky
There's a difference between being a leader and being
arrogant. If you want to be respected, treat others with
respect. Don't think that being pre-med makes you any
better than your peers. And when you're in medical school,
you'll be surrounded by future doctors. Now is the time to
develop leadership skills—not a superiority complex.
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